AIO for saying that this ‘boundary’ is manipulative and controlling? 🤔

My (25F) FWB (25M) took NSFW screenshots of me without my consent. He admitted it, apologised and explained his view over some voice messages and texts, after which I told him I only wanted to communicate via text when discussing this going forward to protect myself from potentially being swayed by emotions rather than logic. He initially agreed but a few days later insisted on a voice call, saying I was “afraid” to talk and that he would from now on only respond to me if I agreed to call, framing it as his boundary. I felt this ‘boundary’ was manipulative and controlling, trying to force me to call, and I said so in an emotional voice message.

He did respond by text and said that I was ‘taking his voice away’ and he is trying to stand up for himself by putting that boundary in place because people have refused to communicate properly with him in the past when things got serious. He also said he wasn’t pressuring me because he didn’t say I had to call him ‘right now’ or at all, just that if I did want to talk to him it would have to be through voice call.

AIO for saying he’s trying to pressure me into calling by making it a ‘boundary’ that he won’t respond unless I do?